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Safer hook-ups

Hook-up safer campaign

SAFER-HOOK-UPSHooking-up should be about connection, intimacy, affirmation, and fun as it is about being safer. For many of us it is but not all hook-ups go to plan and it’s only afterwards we think about making different (better) choices. These are experiences from which we should learn because hook-ups have resulted in tragic consequences for some.

Our tips for making hooking-up safer whether you’ve been around the block a few times, or new to hooking-up.

  • Tell someone where you’re going, and keep your phone and GPS on
  • Have an exit plan home (keeping money or a card in a safe place)
  • Know where to get professional help and support should you need it. If in doubt, phone a helpline or ask a friend
  • If you use drugs: know what and how much you’re taking. Pace yourself and take breaks
  • Some drugs are odourless and tasteless so don’t drink anything you’ve not prepared yourself, or know what it contains
  • When calling the emergency services for an ambulance, be aware the police may also attend
  • Know your rights and where to get legal help in the unlikely event you are questioned and/ or arrested by the police
  • If a hook-up doesn’t feel or look right: trust your gut and think twice before agreeing to meet
  • Not all hook-ups go to plan, and we often don’t talk about them when they go wrong. We should so we can learn from each other

More on safer hook-ups

Safer Hook-Ups

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Play Safer
Safer drug use (harm reduction)
Calling 999 and the police
Safer chemsex

Useful  links to other parts of this website

Consent and sex
Violence, sexual assault and rape
Reporting hate crime and hate crime support

Drug, alcohol and chemsex service listings
Sexual health service listings
Accident and emergency (A&E)

Being online
Catfishing
Gaslighting


Hook-Up Safer video to spearhead campaign from March 2021.

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