Prostate gland

Situated next to the wall of the rectum, a normal prostate is about the size of a walnut, weighing between 15g and 20g with a volume of 20 – 25 ml. It is connected to the bladder by one tube and to the urethra by another. While not fully understood, amongst other things, it produces the milky fluid in which sperm swim and live (making up about 30-40% of semen volume). It also produces substances which give semen its characteristic smell and help pump the cum towards the end of the cock. 

What is prostate pleasure?

It’s packed full of sensitive nerve endings which is why getting fucked or fisted can be a big turn-on. Equally a finger can massage it gently. The pleasure felt can be intense, strange, emotional. Also referred to as the the male “P-spot” or “G-spot,” stimulating it can trigger intense, full-body orgasms that are distinctly different from, and sometimes more intense than, penis stimulation alone, eg: a wank. 

Prostate health 

Prostatitis means prostate inflammation or infection. Symptoms can include pain, fever, pain when pissing, pelvic pain, pain after cumming, or needing to piss more often. An enlarged prostate is common as men get older. It is not cancer, but it can press on the piss tube and make urinating slower, weaker, urgent, or more frequent. Speak to a GP if symptoms persist or something feels wrong.

What is a PSA test?

A PSA test is a blood test that checks prostate-specific antigen. It can help spot prostate problems, including cancer, but it is not perfect and needs proper explanation. Before a PSA test, avoid ejaculation and heavy exercise for 48 hours. Avoid bottoming or prostate stimulation for a week, as these may raise PSA levels temporarily.

What is prostate cancer?

Prostate cancer happens when cells in the prostate grow out of control. Early prostate cancer often has no symptoms, so risk awareness matters more than waiting for warning signs. FYI: getting fucked (bottoming) does not cause prostate cancer. 

When should I speak to a GP?

Speak to a GP if you notice blood in piss or semen, pain, fever, erection changes, pelvic pain, back pain, or changes in how often or easily you piss.

Prostate health for trans women

Trans women, non-binary people assigned male at birth, and some intersex people may still have a prostate. Hormones or surgery may lower risk, but they do not remove it. Prostate problems can affect sex, confidence, bodies, relationships and identity. Queer and trans people deserve care that understands anal sex, partners, dysphoria, HIV, stigma and real lives.

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