Coming out to others
There comes a time to stop talking (or reading for that matter) and get on with living your (new) life exactly how you want to.
There comes a time to start meeting other gay people and to explore your sexuality safely and confidently. A common reaction to this statement, especially if you don't live in a city is "Fine – but where do I start?"
Remember that being gay is about expressing yourself in the way you want to. And just because you've come out doesn't automatically mean you have to have sex. The important thing is you take your time until you feel the time is right for you.
Despite the stereotypes, there is no single way of being gay. We are all as different as any other group of people. Going out with friends and meeting new ones at clubs or parties can be great. But the scene isn’t for everybody and it’s not everything there is to being gay.
As with any group of people, there will be some you get on with and some you don’t. If you feel that you have little in common with the gay people you have met so far, you could try different ways of contacting more gay men; take a look at our Activities section.
Above all, be yourself!↑ Back to top